Last weekend I was in a bar with some of my
friends who LOVE to pick-up girls.
They are pretty ruthless too. They don't care
if they get shot down or rejected...if they do
they will just try again.
Yes they love a couple of beers and drinks
to get their confidence up when going to a bar
or a club.
So we were hanging out next to the dancefloor
and there was this cute blonde who was dancing
with her friends about 5 yards away from us.
In the next 30 minutes, she must hav ebeen hit
on by about 6 guys, including some of my friends.
She got either approached from behind where
guys were trying to dance with her, or their
basic "interview-type" conversation lasted nothing
more than about 2minutes.
You know, stuff like "what's your name", "what
do you do" and "where are you from".
I mean seriously, what chances do all these
guys think they have if they do the exact same
thing like the guy before him?
If you want to succeed with women and dating
you have to use your brain and be smart.
Here, let me illustrate...
There was a young and an older but experienced
bull sitting on a hill looking down on a herd of cows.
The young bull said: "Let's RUN down the hill and
screw a cow what do you say?"
The older and experienced bull just nodded and said
very calmly...
"Tell ya what. Let's WALK down the hill and screw 'em all".
...and that pretty much summed up my night last weekend in
that bar with all my friends and I don't know how many other
dudes.
There was this blonde everybody HIT on with the same lines,
techniques and lame-ass attempts.
So I just finished my drink, chilled with my buddies
and when things calmed down...I walked passed her,
*waved*, smiled ... went over there and said "Hi, what's up?".
And guess what. I use this approach-technique almost
every time when I am in a bar or in a club and it works.
You shall NEVER *hit* on women... you have to be smooth.
And SMOOTH I was.
I don't need to drink my confidence up, I don't need to
tap somebody on the shoulder to get their attention and I
don't need to use cheap pickup lines to get a conversation
going.
I just walked past her, I waved, she waved back ...BAM!
The door was open!
If you can be smooth, then my friend you can pretty much
get whoever you want. Remember, you are different and NON-
THREATENING.
Then I just talked to her for 5minutes, made her laugh,
accused her of chatting up cute lil' boys like me...and then
I cut the conversation short.
"Hey listen, I gotta go back to my friends, but we should
continue this conversation over a cup of coffee. Here, why
don't you give me your number and we work something out."
She was hooked.
If you want to approach a woman and get her number, be
smooth and don't HIT on her. After 5 minutes of slight
cheekyness from your side and accusing her of ... I dunno...
staring at your ass (lol) you can cut it short and get her
number as well.
It's really simple, trust me.
Now go try it!
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